The fallacy of offbeat trends

I’m confused by the “trends” that have been emerging with Offbeat Bride. To me, it feels like the concept behind the book and the site are supposed to be “Offbeat = Personally Expressive,” but lately it’s been more of “Offbeat = Red Dress, Birdcage Veil, & Sneakers.” The message seems like it’s getting lost. Instead of people getting swept up in mainstream insanity and wedding ideals, they’re doing the exact same thing with the “Offbeat Wedding,” like they’re trying to fit into the trends. -An